“We have a girl in our youth group who has decided she is a lesbian…”
“I want to share what the Bible says about homosexuality, but I’m afraid it’s going to just build walls instead of breaking them down.”
“My son doesn’t want to believe in God if God is against gays.”
The subject of same-sex attraction is probably one of the biggest issues youth ministries and parents are dealing with today. If our kids Continue reading “Actually Reaching Kids Experiencing Same Sex Attraction” »
WINNER POSTED! (see below)
You know how much I like movies… so I thought I’d have a nice little contest and give away some Avenger tickets for the new film coming out this Friday! (Your choice of the tickets, or the Blu-ray of the first film)
That means you have to respond fast, because I’ll give these tickets away Friday morning!
Winning is simple. I just want to know your opinion. So use this blog’s comment feature to comment in this post and tell me Continue reading “Giving Away Avengers Tickets” »
Last night when I finished teaching my More Than Just the Talk parenting workshop in Albuquerque, NM, a bunch of us went out to catch a late night dinner together.
About 15 of us walked into Pei Wei (the poor man’s PF Changs) at 8:38 p.m. A young employee walks up to us and said, “Oh, wow. Yeah, I just wanted to tell you that we close at nine o’clock.”
One of the guys in our group, a police officer, looked at his watch confused and said, “Well… it’s 8:38.”
She said, Continue reading “Was the Pei Wei Hostess Right?” »
This month I’ve been busy with interviews, both radio and TV, talking about how caring adults can become young people’s “Go To” person about sex.
Sadly, we’re hearing a growing number of stories of kids who were too scared to open up with their parents about the subject of sex, but they’re looking for answers… sometimes to very embarrassing questions.
Of all the interviews I’ve done recently, here is a very helpful four-part series I did on the Canadian TV show My New Day Continue reading “4 Free Videos” »
Last Friday night I spoke to a group of middle school kids in Cincinnati about sex and screens… here’s a glimpse of how we got the conversation started.
The format was fun. I spoke to them first, letting them know Sex Matters, even in a world that thinks it’s no big deal. Then I gave them four tools to become smarter than their smartphone, fleeing some of the temptations that can be distractions today (something I also addressed in this week’s Parenting Help article, Preventing the Permeation of Porn).
After a break, the students met with an adult leader in small groups and dialogued about what they heard. Here are the discussion questions I provided Continue reading “Sex and Screens” »
Conventional wisdom would tell us that the more time we hang with our kids, the better, right?
Not so fast.
Our new Parenting Help article on TheSource4Parents.com this week reveals some very surprising research that will make parents rethink “quantity time.”
Think about it. What does your “quantity time” with your own kids look like?
Here’s a funny, but sobering little YouTube video from Continue reading “Binging… not Bonding” »
Year after year I encounter powerful movie, TV and YouTube clips that provoke meaningful discussions about Easter and Christ’s sacrifice for us (we even saw one last season that we highlighted on our The Gospel According to The Walking Dead blog).
Out of all the clips I encounter year after year and highlight on our Holiday Ideas page… these THREE CLIPS stick out as some of my favorites for Easter Continue reading “Favorite Easter Clips” »
Do you ever encounter a kid who just won’t seem to engage in spiritual conversations?
I just received the following encouraging note from “Josh,” a youth worker who happens to also be a foster dad:
I wanted to share with you that our family just began your Zombie Apocalypse Survival Guide for Teenagers last night. I have a 16-year-old foster daughter who has been with us for 5 months now, and she hasn’t responded much to spiritual things. We only went through the first few opening pages of the book – setting the stage, so to speak, for future family devotionals with this – but she interacted with those pages more than she has with any other family devo we’ve done. Her reactions ranged from laughter to, “Does it really say that?” It was fun to Continue reading “Getting her to interact for the first time” »
Canadian TV show My New Day just posted three of their shows online where the hosts Bob and Audrey interviewed me about engaging today’s teenagers in meaningful conversation. (You’ll see Part 1, 2, and 3 all linked on this page. Part 1 really gets started at about 8:45 into it, the rest dive in right away.)
These videos are great clips to show to parents about how to use everyday real-world occurrences to get our kids talking about stuff that matters.
Here’s an excerpt from part 3 Continue reading “Engaging Today’s Teens in Meaningful Conversation” »